“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what’s God’s will is — his good, pleasing, and perfect will.” Romans 12:2
We become like those we are around. Good or bad they influence your lives but if you are a child of God you should become more like Christ every day. God is doing a work in us but we need to do are part. Reading God’s word and meditating on it is so important. Then following it comes next. It takes deliberate practice to become more like Christ. You have to be committed. People all around you are focusing on the negative and it is so easy to lose our focus. Of course we have problems, everybody does. But you have to keep your focus on Christ if you are a Christian and they will see that you are different. I live in a nursing home and people have pain and anxiety which can lead to negative outbursts. It can be difficult to ignore at times. I still need to focus on where my help comes from. You only make things worse when you lose that focus. People that don’t know the Lord can’t help it and even if they do know the Lord they can let the problems win. Complaining about your problems is hard not to do but it’s only keeping your problems where they don’t belong. If you want to complain just think of something you can thank God for currently, there are as many good things happening as bad all the time. Even if it’s just your family and friends spend time around those people and encourage each other. Spend time encouraging yourself by telling yourself all the great things God has done and continues to do in your life. So many miracles happen all the time and God is right in the middle of them. God does so many great things for us that others may never know about because their minds are closed off. Guard your heart and your mind for everything comes out of it. Be the best you that you can be.
